❓cosmiC FAQ: Why doesn’t “help” feel helpful anymore?
🧠 The Question:
“Why does help feel useless? Why do I feel worse after asking for it — or offering it?”

🌌 The Cosmic Truth:
Humanity has become addicted to asking for help and offering help —
but the kind of “help” we’ve normalized is misaligned, performative, and often disempowering for everyone involved.

🚫 The Illusion of Help
1. Help creates a victim.
Asking for help now often places the asker in a powerless role — even when they’re clear and intentional. Society sees them as broken, needy, or weak.

2. Help empowers the “helper” instead of the helped.
Most help isn’t given in alignment with the request — it’s filtered through the provider’s ego, trauma, or fantasy of being useful. The provider ends up giving what they think is needed, not what was actually asked.

3. The actual request is ignored.
Real intention gets lost in the noise. The result? Frustration. Misunderstanding. Disconnection.

🌱 What Real Help Looks Like
True help isn’t about ego, fixing, or performing.

It’s about:

🌀 Deep listening without assuming

🌕 Responding only to what’s actually asked

🐾 Letting beings grow through struggle if that’s part of their path

🛑 Not offering help just to feel needed

Daley Dogs promise only assistance!